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The Power of Words
A Guide to Interacting with People
with Disabilities.
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Living in a Diverse Culture
People with Disabilities are part of the
landscape in a diverse America. The more than 54 million Americans with
disabilities are neighbors, friends, classmates, family members and
co-workers.
Changes in laws, technology, public policies and attitudes have opened
opportunities for people with disabilities to pursue education, recreation
and employment in the mainstream of community life. Like other Americans,
people with disabilities live, work, attend school, play, worship, and
volunteer in their communities.
The Council has designed this information to help enhance understanding and
communication in everyday interactions with people with disabilities.
Language - A Powerful Tool
"Handicapped man confined to wheelchair..." "Girl
stricken with cerebral palsy..." Words and phrases such as these shape
incorrect perceptions of people with disabilities. Negative attitudes are
often the greatest barrier for people with disabilities to overcome. Even
the word "handicap" itself is considered insulting by many because it was a
term coined by people outside the disability community.
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By working together to create positive attitudes toward people
with disabilities, we can create a better society--and that is a positive
step for everyone.
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Rules to Use When Writing or Speaking About People with Disabilities
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Always use people-first language. Refer to the person first and not his or her disability. Do not say "a disabled person." Instead, refer to "a person with a disability."
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Never group individuals together as "the mentally retarded," which puts the focus on the disability, not on the individual.
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Avoid emotional and sensationalist words. People with disabilities are often either thought of as inspirational and courageous, or pitiful and in need of charity. Both extremes are erroneous stereotypes.
Be sensitive when choosing words. The reality is
that people with disabilities succeed not "in spite of" their
disabilities but "in spite of" an inaccessible and discriminatory
society. They do not "overcome" their disabilities so much as
"overcome" prejudice.
You can help by using nonjudgmental terms and phrases that portray
an image of dignity and respect.
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Easy Ways to Avoid Inappropriate Language
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DON'Ts (Disrespectful Terms) |
DOs (Respectful Terms) |
| Crippled, spastic | Cerebral palsy/paraplegia/physical disability |
| Retard, mongoloid | Cognitive or intellectual impairment |
| Dumb/deaf-mute | Communication disorder/unable to speak/deaf |
| Handicap | Disability |
| Fit | Epilepsy/seizure |
| Insane, crazy, deranged | Psychiatric disability |
| Wheelchair bound/confined | Uses a wheelchair |
| Differently-abled | Avoid trendy or cute terms |
| Stricken, victim or suffering from | Had or has a disability |
| Patient | Use only if the person is under a doctor's care |
| Handicapped parking/seating | Accessible parking/seating |
| Special bus, special housing | Separate bus, segregated housing |
| The disabled, the blind | Person with a disability, people who are blind |
| Disabled rights or group | Disability rights, disability advocates/community |
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Ten Commandments of Etiquette
The following "Ten Commandments of Etiquette for
Communicating with People with Disabilities" will help you communicate more
effectively with people with disabilities.
When talking with a person with a
disability, use eye contact and speak directly to that person
rather than through a companion or sign language interpreter.
When introduced to a person with a
disability, it is appropriate to offer to shake hands. People
with limited hand use or who wear an artificial limb usually can
shake hands. (Shaking hands with the left hand is an acceptable
greeting.) When meeting a person who is visually
impaired, always identify yourself and others who may be with
you. When conversing in a group, remember to identify the person
to whom you are speaking. If you offer assistance, wait until the offer
is accepted. Then listen to or ask for instructions. Treat adults as adults. Address people who
have disabilities by their first names only when extending the
same familiarity to all others. Never patronize people who use
wheelchairs by patting them on the head or shoulder. A wheelchair is part of the personal body
space of the person who uses it. Leaning on a person's
wheelchair is similar to leaning on a person and is generally
considered inappropriate. Listen attentively when you're talking with a
person who has difficulty speaking. Be patient and wait for the
person to finish, rather than correcting or speaking for the
person. If necessary, as short questions that require short
answers, a nod or shake of the head. Never pretend to
understand if you are having difficulty in doing so. Instead,
repeat what you have understood and allow the person to respond. When speaking with a person who uses a
wheelchair or a person who uses crutches, place yourself at eye
level in front of the person to facilitate the conversation. To get the attention of a person who is deaf,
tap the person on the shoulder or wave your hand. Look directly
at the person and speak clearly, slowly and expressively to
determine if the person can read your lips. Be sensitive to
those who lip read by placing yourself so that you face the
light source and keeping hands and food away from your mouth
when speaking. Relax. Don't be embarrassed if you use common
expressions-such as "See you later" or "Did you hear about
that?" -that seem to relate to a person's disability. It's okay
to ask questions when you're unsure of what to do.
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The Indiana Governor's Planning Council for People with Disabilities has many informative publications about disability in the United States today. The Power of Words is originally a pamphlet provided by GPCPD. You can get more information by visiting their Website at: www.in.gov/gpcpd it is available in accessible formats.
Sources: Guidelines to Reporting and Writing About People with Disabilities, produced by the Media Project, Research and Training Center on Independent Living, 4089 Dole, University of Kansas, Lawrence, KS 66-45; Ten Commandments of Etiquette for Communication with People with Disabilities, National Center for Access Unlimited, 155 North Wacker Drive, Suite 315, Chicago, IL 60606; and Beyond the AP Stylebook: Language and Usage Guide for Reporters and Editors, The Advocado Press, Inc.
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